From Silicon Valley to Provence: A Family's Bold Move for Balance
In 2023, Lin Koh and her family left Santa Clara, California, for a quieter life in Fuveau, a small town near Aix-en-Provence. The move allowed them to care for her husband's mother, who has Alzheimer's, while escaping the Bay Area's soaring living costs. Their new life in France has brought both challenges and unexpected benefits.
Koh and her husband, both former tech professionals, now share a multigenerational home with his parents. The arrangement has sometimes strained their marriage but has also deepened family bonds. Caring for their children and her mother-in-law requires teamwork, while adjusting to French culture has demanded patience.
The family chose France partly for its lower cost of living compared to the Bay Area. In Fuveau, they've found more affordable housing and a slower pace of life. Unlike Santa Clara, where high salaries came with steep expenses and long work hours, France's emphasis on work-life balance has given them more time together. Learning French has been difficult, but the children are adapting well at their local school. Koh and her husband have also had to rebuild their social network from scratch. Despite the effort, they now enjoy a simpler, less stressful routine—one that prioritises family over career pressures. Over the past five years, Fuveau has seen modest improvements in housing and local services, thanks to EU-funded projects. Meanwhile, Santa Clara's tech boom drove up housing costs by roughly 25%, widening income gaps. While Bay Area families earned more, their quality of life often declined under financial strain. In contrast, Koh's family now benefits from France's stable living standards and stronger community ties.
The move has allowed Koh and her husband to reduce expenses while focusing on family and well-being. Their children are integrating into French school life, and shared caregiving has strengthened relationships. Though building a new life abroad took effort, the trade-offs—more time together and less financial stress—have made the transition worthwhile.
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